Points to discuss BEFORE wedding – part 15 (by V.O. Ruzov, translated)

Do we love and respect  friends of the partner? We create family not with only one person. We take the whole world that is associated with this person, all his dreams, plans, desires, victory and defeat, all the friends, and whole past, present and future. I can’t take a person from the streets who has no connection with absolutely anything and anybody. Even newborn baby already has a preference, he/she already likes something and doesn’t something else. Therefore, you should examine in advance the entire universe you going to bring into your one-bedroom apartment. You will have to live with all this, so do see how this person lives without you, what things are in his/her room, how he/she communicates with parents and what he/she does with friends. All of this is not going to disappear, it will come to you as an inheritance, which maybe you haven’t really been waiting for.

 

Remember: the partner doesn’t come alone, but brings friends along.

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